Made dinner for a friend the other night and we got talking about the men in Singapore. He thought that Singaporean men were immature and that's why I should never date one. He's Singaporean too, but studied in the UK. He came back a couple of years ago and wants to go overseas again.
According to him, if I am too direct or assertive I could scare the guys away. My point is that if I just waited, nothing would happen because the guy does not have enough confidence to ask me out. He said I have to pretend I am in secondary school because that's how emotionallly immature guys are. They like to be in control. That's riduculous and silly.
Are men really that scared and insecure?
I just be myself. I am too old to be playing stupid high school dating games. It's immature. If guys don't lke it, then too bad for them.
ReplyDeleteThen you don't mind being alone?
ReplyDeleteThere's no need to be depressed. I think everyone has a destiny and for some of us that may not include getting married or in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteThe older I get, the less tolerant I am of certain flaws because time is short and I don't want to waste time feeling stressed about someone.