The Men are Scared
Made dinner for a friend the other night and we got talking about the men in Singapore. He thought that Singaporean men were immature and that's why I should never date one. He's Singaporean too, but studied in the UK. He came back a couple of years ago and wants to go overseas again.
According to him, if I am too direct or assertive I could scare the guys away. My point is that if I just waited, nothing would happen because the guy does not have enough confidence to ask me out. He said I have to pretend I am in secondary school because that's how emotionallly immature guys are. They like to be in control. That's riduculous and silly.
Are men really that scared and insecure?
According to him, if I am too direct or assertive I could scare the guys away. My point is that if I just waited, nothing would happen because the guy does not have enough confidence to ask me out. He said I have to pretend I am in secondary school because that's how emotionallly immature guys are. They like to be in control. That's riduculous and silly.
Are men really that scared and insecure?
posted by indiscreet @ 10/10/2006 04:37:00 PM
3 Comments:
At 11:06 AM ,
indiscreet said...
I just be myself. I am too old to be playing stupid high school dating games. It's immature. If guys don't lke it, then too bad for them.
At 9:18 AM ,
indiscreet said...
Then you don't mind being alone?
At 2:11 PM ,
indiscreet said...
There's no need to be depressed. I think everyone has a destiny and for some of us that may not include getting married or in a relationship.
The older I get, the less tolerant I am of certain flaws because time is short and I don't want to waste time feeling stressed about someone.
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