Utterly Indiscreet

Sunday, April 30, 2006

Part 3

Here is some more of that conversation. Oh yeah, we were driving around during the previous conversation. Were looking for a place for a quick drink.

P: Well? How many times per week?
Me: I am not telling you!
P: Why not? I am just curious.
Me: Erm.....times a week. (sorry, not going to give the number here)
P: Does that mean every time you meet up?
Me: No. It's like 80% of the time or something like that. I still can't believe that you haven't had sex with your wife in 3 months. That's so long ago!!
P: We are just busy.
Me: When the sex goes, usually everything else does too.

Silence from P. I decided not to press him further about that. But now I wonder if this is the longest period of abstinence. Maybe it's normal for them to go so long without connecting physically?

22 Comments:

  • At 5:47 AM , Blogger Unreal said...

    Yep, like I've said, you've got a better one than he does. Maybe he's gotta start making Plan B.

     
  • At 11:22 AM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    I don't think so. He seems satisfied even though he hardly spends time with his wife. He says that they are comfortable with that.

     
  • At 12:49 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    If that's the case, there will be no problems then. Just wondering why did he seem more worried about you than you are.

     
  • At 12:52 PM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    He thinks time is running out for me to get hitched or he wants me to have a "5" rating marriage as well. Ha.

     
  • At 8:21 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    Nah, time's no worry. Anyway, what's a "5" rating marriage?

     
  • At 8:42 AM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    In part 1 of the conversation, my friend said he gave his marriage a "5" on a scale of 1 to 10.'

    Sounds very average to me.

     
  • At 7:33 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    Even for someone as slack as I am, a 5 point score for marriage is way too little. Don't you think even an "8" is already a compromise?

     
  • At 12:06 AM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    Well, I think it's not possible to be perfect and have a 10 even though that's what people should be striving for. I guess I think that I can always do better, so no 10.

     
  • At 12:36 AM , Blogger Unreal said...

    Getting a "10" is not what I meant, getting a "9" is already highly impossible, what I'm ready for is an "8". Nothing more, perhaps less, who knows, maybe when the day comes I might even doing it for a "3". We'll see.

     
  • At 11:59 AM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    Don't you think you deserve more than 3. That's pretty low.

     
  • At 6:05 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    I know, a "3" is almost insane, but have you ever felt that there're times when all logic goes outta the window?

     
  • At 10:30 PM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    Actually, I am a very logical pragmatic person most of the time. But sometimes emotions get in the way, so logic does go out the window.

     
  • At 12:12 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    heh...... bingo. Aren't we all stupid sometimes eh?

     
  • At 2:54 PM , Blogger nosynachos said...

    Rating a relationship on a scale from 1 to 10....

    There is no such thing as one rating. Things change from day to day, week to week, month to month, year to year. At some point, it's a 10. It's a 3. It's a 5. It's an 8. That's normal.

     
  • At 4:22 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    So I think it's best to get one that's rated at about "7" or "8", 'cause when it comes to the fluctuation bit, it when fall too low, right? And when the rating rises depending on the mood, a "7" won't blow through the roof innit? Getting an "11" or "12" won't be real, unless it's only for that very moment before the other party starts pissingyou off again like they always do, eh?

     
  • At 3:43 PM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    My friend who always rates his marriage at 5 (would like to find out how his wife rates their marriage) says 5 means everything is in balance. He thinks if its more than that, then things will eventually crash and fall.

    Guess there are days when things are bad. i.e. if you have a big argument and then it could be 1.

    Hopefully, you are aren't always stuck on 1 all the time.

     
  • At 7:02 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    Whoa! As 'chin-cai' as I am, a "1" is totally off the chain. Guess I can deal with a "3" when the times are bad.

     
  • At 8:40 AM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    Guess it comes down to how much suffering I am willing to tolerate. It its is a consistent 1, then I would want to give up. What's the point. I can be at least a 7 on my own.

     
  • At 7:50 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    If it really came to a point of a consistant "2", let alone a "1", best leave before we actually commit murder.

     
  • At 3:12 PM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    Do all couples have periodic urges to kill each other?

     
  • At 9:25 PM , Blogger Unreal said...

    I don't know really, but it happens once in a while I guess. Didn't you?

     
  • At 11:02 AM , Blogger indiscreet said...

    I am fairly good tempered, so I don't explode and want to murder anyone. On the other hand, if someone has a really annoying habit or characteristics, then I would probably lose my patience at times.
    If I can't tolerate it anymore, he's history!

     

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